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Are you a parent, kinship carer relative or friend of a child who is involved with, or who needs the help of, children’s services in England? We can help you understand processes and options when social workers or courts are making decisions about your child’s welfare.
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If there is any suggestion that your child cannot remain in your care you should immediately get legal advice from a solicitor specialising in children’s law or contact Family Rights Group advice line.
Your child’s social worker’s job is to work with you to make things better for your child at home.
This should include them involving your wider family to see what help they can give you to keep your child safe, for example helping you have a break by having your child to stay from time to time.
But it is important to understand that if you do not do what is expected of you, and if the concerns about your child’s well-being are not resolved, or even increase, then social workers may start to think that your child should not remain in your care.
This meeting is for social workers and the council’s lawyers to decide, on the basis of the evidence that has been gathered about your child’s circumstances, whether it is in your child’s best interests:
You will not be invited to this meeting.
This letter should explain that court proceedings are likely but that you are being given a last chance to improve your parenting to avoid your child being removed. It will also set out:
a. what the concerns are about your child’s safety,
b. what you need to change/improve in your parenting to make sure your child is safe and to avoid your child being removed from your care;
c. what help you will continue to be given to keep your child safe;
d. inviting you to a pre-proceedings meeting to discuss the improvements you need to make; and
e. information about how you can get free legal advice and representation.
If you receive this letter, it is really important that you see a solicitor specialising in children’s law immediately. The council should send you details of local specialist solicitors. You should give your solicitor a copy of the letter you have received. If you give them a copy of the letter before proceedings you will not have to pay their costs.
It is also really important that you go to the pre-proceedings meeting the social worker has invited you to and that you ask your solicitor to go to the meeting with you. You should also let the social worker know that you will come to the meeting.
Before you go to this meeting you should prepare with your solicitor what you want to say about any changes you will make. You will normally be given a further 6 weeks to make necessary changes to keep your child safe, before the social worker applies to court for an order to remove your child.
It is very important that you involve your wider family immediately to find out how they can help you keep your child safe. This might involve them either:
It is important that you have this discussion with your family before you go to the pre-proceedings meeting so you can tell the social worker at the meeting how they can help.
If social workers tell you at the pre-proceedings meeting that don’t think it is in your child’s best interests to remain in your care, they may ask you if there is anyone in your family who could care for your child on a short (or even long term ) basis. It is really important you tell them if you know of anyone in the family who would be willing and suitable to care for your child. It is also important you ask that family member to contact your child’s social worker directly.
You can also ask the social worker to arrange a family group conference to enable your whole family to meet together to make (or firm up) a plan about how best they can help protect your child including identifying who in the family could care for your child if you cannot. Some councils do this routinely, others don’t but you can always ask for this and you can point out to the social worker that government guidance recommends that local authorities should consider making a referral for a family group conference ‘if they believe there is a possibility that the child may not be able to remain with their parents… unless this would place the child at risk.’
If your child moves to live with a family member with your agreement but this has been requested or arranged by the social worker, your child is likely to be technically looked after in the care system. This is known as voluntary arrangement, or Section 20 if you have agreed to it. It may also be called “accommodation” “kinship care” or “family and friends care”. This means your relative would have to be formally assessed and approved as a foster carer for your child and should also have a right to receive support to care for your child. To find out more go to our Children in the care system under voluntary arrangements (section 20) page.
If your relative wants to raise your child but would prefer them not to be in care or does not wish to be assessed as a foster carer or the social worker does not agree to them raising the child, they can apply to court for a Child Arrangements Order or Special Guardianship Order. For more information please see here.
In these circumstances, the social worker should send you a letter of issue, informing you that legal proceedings are being started and that you should see a solicitor specialising in children’s law immediately. As a parent, you will not have to pay your solicitors costs if you give them this letter of issue. To find out more about what happens when care proceedings are started, go to our Care (and related) proceedings page.
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