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If the father and mother were married either before or after the birth of their child, the father will have parental responsibility.
What if a father and mother were not married?
If a child was born after 2003, their father can check the child’s birth certificate to see if he is named on it as the father. If he is, then this means he is registered as the child’s father.
These are different ways to see the birth certificate:
Where a father is registered as the child’s father on the birth certificate, he will have parental responsibility for the child.
What if a father has a written agreement with the mother?
A valid agreement with a mother for a father to have parental responsibility must:
If these things have not been done the agreement will not be recognised as legal. Any father who thinks he has a written agreement can check to see if the agreement is signed by a court officer.
For information about entering into a parental responsibility agreement see our What is parental responsibility and when do fathers have, or get, it? page.
What if a court order has been made about a child?
Parental responsibility can be part of certain court orders.
A father will have parental responsibility if the Family Court has:
It is a good idea to check any court order to see what type it is and what it says.
The form has to be filled in and then the Family Court with a fee of £215. Fathers who are on a low income or in receipt of benefits may be able to get help with their court fees. They will need to apply online here.
For information about applying for a parental responsibility order see our What is parental responsibility and when do fathers have, or get, it? page.
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