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This will depend on the precise situation. Four different situations are explained on this page. Other helpful information and guidance see the Human Fertilisation and Human Embryology website here.
(The law explains this in section 2(1A)(b) of the Children Act 1989; and in sections 43 and 44 of the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Act 2008))
The best option for a second female parent to obtain parental responsibility will depend on what is agreed with a child’s birth mother. Click on the dropdowns below for more information and advice about each option:
Sign a parental responsibility agreement
A parental responsibility agreement form can be filled in. This is Form C(PRA3) and called Parental Responsibility Agreement – section 4ZA Children Act 1989 (Acquisition of parental responsibility by second female parent).
The form is available from any Family Court office. Or it can be downloaded from the court service website here.
Applying for a parental responsibility order
If the child’s mother does not agree, a second female parent may look at applying to the Family Court for a parental responsibility order. This is an application made under section 4(1)(c) of the Children Act 1989).
Important note: When someone wants to apply for a parental responsibility order they usually must first meet with a mediator. This is to discuss whether mediation may be a suitable way of resolving their case. And a court form about mediation must be completed and sent to the Family Court at the same time as applying for the order.
See the next dropdowns for information about mediation, the mediation form and exemptions that may apply.
Meeting with a mediator before applying for an order
The meeting with a mediator is called a mediation, information and assessment meeting or MIAM. Usually this meeting must take place before someone can make an application to the Family Court for a parental responsibility order.
Usually, someone who wants to apply for a parental responsibility order must confirm to the Family Court that they have met with a mediator. This is shown by the mediator signing a form.
This FM1 form is then sent in with the court forms which are used to apply for the order. Information on how to find a family mediator may be obtained from here: www.familymediationcouncil.org.uk.
When a meeting with a mediator does not have to take place - exemptions
Where a case is urgent, or where there has been domestic abuse or child protection concerns, the person applying for the order may not have to go to mediation first.
This can be done by ticking the boxes that apply to your situation in section 2 of the form. The actual evidence does not need to be sent in with the FM1 form or the main C1 application form. But it will need to be provided to the Family Court at the first hearing.
Open or download this table to see the different mediation exemptions and how they must be evidenced.
What does the Family Court have to take into account when deciding whether to make a parental responsibility order?
When the Family Court makes any decision relating to a child, the child’s welfare must always be the court’s ‘paramount consideration’. This is known as the welfare principle. Or the paramountcy principle. It means the court needs to think what is in the child’s best interests when it makes decisions (see section 1 (1) of the Children Act 1989. This all applies where the court is deciding an application for a parental responsibility order.
To help work out what is in a child’s best interests, the court must use the welfare checklist. This is set out at section 1 (3) of the Children Act 1989. Read more about welfare checklist here.
When the Family Court is deciding whether a second female parent should have a parental responsibility order it has to presume the involvement of that parent in the child’s life is good for the child (‘will further their welfare’) unless:
The law about parental involvement, second female parents and parental responsibility order applications is found in the Children Act 1989 in these sections: section 1(2A), section 1(7) and section 4ZA(1)(c).
Lives with child arrangements orders
A second female parent may want to take advice about applying for a child arrangements order saying where the child should live (see section 8 of the Children Act 1989). This order gives the holder of the order parental responsibility for as long as the order is in place.
A second female parent without parental responsibility will need the permission of the Family Court to apply for this order. And the rules about mediation will still apply.
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