My husband just signed his papers and was placed in SOR. We are not aware that it means he cannot be left alone with our kids unsupervised.
Our "first" knock happened December 2020 and on 6th of January 2021, all restrictions were removed. Then, after 10 months my husband signed the cautioned and was included in the list of SOR.
Within the period of time from my daughter was born (2015) up until now, we were happy living together. It just that unfortunately, my husband happens to made a mistake because he wants to pinned down the bad guys and ended up having those photos in his gadgets.
Our current situation, we do not have any relatives here in the UK, no one to rely on and trust. No access to universal credit. We cannot ask for help to our friends and co-workers since they also have their own family and commitment of their own.
We were visited by our social worker but ended up being so stressed after the meeting due to the fact that we don't have any options but at least consider our situation.
My husband has been the primary carer of our daughter since birth and up to now. We asked them if they could consider my husband to look after my daughter and my unborn child (I am due few weeks from now). We understand the law and as much as we want to have a child minder, we cannot afford it.
We cannot commit to a plan that's temporary. We are run out of options.
I guess, what will happen is it will be escalated if we don't come up with a better solution.
Is there someone in here that could give us some advice or have the same situation.
Thank you.
