Threatening and black mail leters

[Magic-lord]

Firstly some good news been told that my son and daughter are not longer on the child protection plan nor on a child in need following the last child conference meeting that's the good news however the child who caused all this upset
Who decided not to live here following problems that happened and things he was doing towards his younger siblings was there my two youngest that they didn't want him living here.
Now over 2 years now had number of threats either call wise or while out either to myself or my daughter now its moved on to my wife in one week threats in tex and posted letters
We have found that the social worker said to him to write.
However dont think they viewed the letter my mum saw the letter because at moment he still there she pleased with him not to send letters but he did she is terminally ill and hasn't the strength to ask him to move on he is 17 year old. Now today I had to call to my mum address because of her health was greated by threats and him calling the police on me makeing fake claims that I was beating him up when I'd come to speak to my mum we had to go to my car while there number threats made towards me and claims he would smash up my car. His social worker called up other day saying that he wanted to work on the relationship between myself and wife and he understood that he has done things wrong. However there tex and letter say other wise.
We have had to call police now because he has been hanging around the school where our daughter goes three times now she has had massive panic attack she is sitting her GCSE and worried that if this would happen on exam day she wont be able to do exams

My last call from police that want to get domestic unit to help but still doesn't help either my wife my own health as we are always looking over our shoulders nerves go when either of us get a phone call from number we dont recognise it's no way to live

[KatKat10]

Magic Lord, positive to hear the outcome of your children being taken off CIN and CPP.

In relation to the other situation, as hard as it might be, some legal intervention may be required even if a restraining order is made in regards to the 17 year old, to protect the younger children. As you say it's no way to live. Sounds like the Social Worker is not taking things seriously. If it was you doing these things, they would come down on you hard and would be a different story.

Keep a log of everything you do and where you go on a daily basis, incase they believe the allegations, that way you can prove they are false. Use card payments where you can to prove a digital time line or keep receipts when using cash.

[Suzie, FRG Adviser]

Firstly some good news been told that my son and daughter are not longer on the child protection plan nor on a child in need following the last child conference meeting that's the good news however the child who caused all this upset
Who decided not to live here following problems that happened and things he was doing towards his younger siblings was there my two youngest that they didn't want him living here.
Now over 2 years now had number of threats either call wise or while out either to myself or my daughter now its moved on to my wife in one week threats in tex and posted letters
We have found that the social worker said to him to write.
However dont think they viewed the letter my mum saw the letter because at moment he still there she pleased with him not to send letters but he did she is terminally ill and hasn't the strength to ask him to move on he is 17 year old. Now today I had to call to my mum address because of her health was greated by threats and him calling the police on me makeing fake claims that I was beating him up when I'd come to speak to my mum we had to go to my car while there number threats made towards me and claims he would smash up my car. His social worker called up other day saying that he wanted to work on the relationship between myself and wife and he understood that he has done things wrong. However there tex and letter say other wise.
We have had to call police now because he has been hanging around the school where our daughter goes three times now she has had massive panic attack she is sitting her GCSE and worried that if this would happen on exam day she wont be able to do exams

My last call from police that want to get domestic unit to help but still doesn't help either my wife my own health as we are always looking over our shoulders nerves go when either of us get a phone call from number we dont recognise it's no way to live

Dear Magic lord

Thanks for your post. I have provided a full response to your post under the 'harassment' thread.

Best wishes

Suzie