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[Missbe1984]

I am concerned my child is always rude to me when I go contact them the social worker why he has to go to contact it can be very hurtful he is not even sad what can I do?

[Suzie, FRG Adviser]

Dear Missbee1984,

Thank you for your post.

I am sorry to hear that you are concerned about your child being rude or hurtful during contact. There may be many reasons for this and this may be something that the social worker can further explore with them.

I would advise that you discuss your concerns with the social worker. The social worker can do some direct work with your child in order to explore their feelings a bit more. You may also want to suggest that an advocate be organised for your child, if they do not already have one. An advocate can help represent and amplify their views.

Best wishes,

Suzie.