Hello everyone,
I'm here seeking some advice and guidance regarding a situation involving my child and the social services. I'll try to keep it as straightforward as possible.
My child has severe special needs, and I have legitimate concerns about the suitability of my ex-wife's care for him. To ensure these concerns are documented and addressed appropriately, I've sent recorded and signed letters outlining my worries to the social worker responsible for my son's case. However, I've received no acknowledgment or response to any of these letters. It's as if they've been completely disregarded.
I've also attempted to discuss my concerns in person, but the social worker appears to ignore the matters I've raised. This lack of acknowledgment or response is deeply concerning to me. I want to make sure that my concerns are not only heard but duly recorded. My primary motivation is the well-being of my child.
In the event that something preventable were to happen to my son due to the concerns I've raised being ignored, I want the social services to be accountable for their failure to address these warnings.
So, my questions are:
What steps can I take to ensure that my concerns are documented and taken seriously by the social services?
Is there a specific protocol or channel I should follow to escalate this issue?
How can I ensure that my child's well-being is the top priority in this situation?
Any advice or experiences you can share would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for taking the time to read this and offer your insights.
Best regards,
Concerns About Social Worker's Response to My Child's Needs
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Sunnyday
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Suzie, FRG Adviser
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Re: Concerns About Social Worker's Response to My Child's Needs
Dear Sunnyday
Thank you for your post and welcome to the Board.
I am sorry to read of your worrying situation and would suggest that the place to start might be to request the information held about your son (family) from the local authority and then perhaps make a formal complaint about the support or services that your son is receiving, here on our website is information about complaints.
I am sorry that you have concerns about how your son is being cared for by your wife and that your views about how he might be cared for are not being listened to. Advice Now has some information about sorting our arrangements for children and the charities Contact and Gingerbread may be helpful to you. We have on our website information about what support might be offered to children with disabilities, you can read it here.
Best wishes
Suzie
Thank you for your post and welcome to the Board.
I am sorry to read of your worrying situation and would suggest that the place to start might be to request the information held about your son (family) from the local authority and then perhaps make a formal complaint about the support or services that your son is receiving, here on our website is information about complaints.
I am sorry that you have concerns about how your son is being cared for by your wife and that your views about how he might be cared for are not being listened to. Advice Now has some information about sorting our arrangements for children and the charities Contact and Gingerbread may be helpful to you. We have on our website information about what support might be offered to children with disabilities, you can read it here.
Best wishes
Suzie
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Sunnyday
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Re: Concerns About Social Worker's Response to My Child's Needs
Dear Suzie,
Thank you very much for your advice. As you suggested, I will made a request to get all the information the Children's Service held about me and my son.
Kind regards,
Sunnyday
Thank you very much for your advice. As you suggested, I will made a request to get all the information the Children's Service held about me and my son.
Kind regards,
Sunnyday
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