Help with resedence order

[GEECEE42]

Hi-
a brief synopsis, i am 42 yo man who has a resedence order for my 3 kids. granted in march 2013, my ex has contact with kids from sun 12-00 till wed at 4-00.

End june 2013- kids went with mum, all happy. Mum was upset as i was wanting to change schools as , closer one to my home. Gets phone call monday of childrens services, daughter claiming i had smacked her causing bruise in ear.. ALL LIES...section 47 intailed, outcome no proof, i had done such act. time taking 8 weeks.. then still no contact i had with kids.. as ex- kept on not attending meetings, so dragging on and on...i admitted i do chastise my kids, so did course with CAPPS, everything fine.. then kids went on child protection plan, due to emotional abuse, of mother, and us not getting on.. 10 weeks, still no kids, week 11 core group, with social worker, mum DNA, outcome, children come back home to dads, and adhere to resedence order. Mum would not listen to S Worker, put phone down on her, i rang POLICE, Nothing they could do , civil matter. Mum supposed to have child in need visit, cancalled.. you see the pattern now.
Went for advice told to apply for N78 breaking of resedence order, did, also put in c79 and c100, in court next thursday at 12-30..
Also found out that mum not been to 4 appoitments at hospital with youngest, NEGLECT?

Social services and CAPPS worker fully support me, mum does not engage with them..

Mum has had another son now 23 whoms dad had resedence order of...mum been in prison, numerous times, myself no criminal record.

mum rings up police and social services, they now screen her calls, with lies and accusations all time.. had to get psychiatric evaluation done last time in court, mum smokes canabis, had drug tests done last time, valium in system for 4 months. whilst pregnant..

What will happen when i go to court as can not afford solicitor, all benefits stopped as mum rang them up saying kids in local care. so suspended my benefits for 4 weeks.

WHAT WILL JUDGE DO IN CASE AS SAME JUDGE AS LAST TIME!¬ CAN SHE BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR BREAKING RESEDENCE ORDER? CAN SHE TRY AND GET ORDER REVOKED, AS I THINK SHE IS TRYING TO DO SO? AND LASTLY CAN I HAVE CONTACT STOPPED WITH MUM ON GROUNDS OF SHE WILL NOT BRING KIDS BACK AT TIME. AND ALSO THE EMOTIONAL ABUSE, AND NOT GOING TO APPOITMENTS? THANKS GEE

[Suzie, FRG Adviser]

Dear Gee,

I am so sorry to hear about the difficulties that you have experienced recently and that children services have been involved with your family. I am glad to see that children services and the CAPPS worker support your application. This will go a long way when you are back in court. Can you get any letter or report from them before Thursday?

Unfortunately, I am not in a position to answer your questions about the court process as Family Rights Group advise families about children services (social services). Your questions are focused on your private law court applications.
Instead you could try Coram children’s legal centre.

Best wishes,

Suzie