I want someone to hear me..

[Frazor]

At this moment in my life i feel so helpless im scared . So last time i posted on this group social services were trying to take my 2 children they have taken me to the family court to remove my children urgently they asked me into there office on the 8th January 2026 to tell me they are removing my children into care they had foster parents ready to foster my children separately. I had no solicitor i had to find one that same day which i did they explained that we had 14 days to convince the judge my children were safe in my care. The judge stopped them taking my children the happiness we felt as a family was the best feeling in the world. But that's just the start ive since been to court 3 times the final hearing is on the 26th may 2026 where the judge will decide if the evidence the LA is saying is the truth. I had a meeting this morning with the solicitor to read the final statement the sw as written the sad part is she never said nothing of the sort to me she was always so sorry this was happening but there's nothing she can do to stop the judge deciding what happens , they are not seeking to remove my son now dew to his age as he's 16 he's made it clear he will just come back home, they will be removing my little girl she's 9 and half. The sw came to my house this afternoon they asked me what my views were with there final statement and said they wanted to just check if i was okay then said they wanted to prepare me for the final hearing when my little daughter will be taken into foster placement. I got so upset with the way they made me feel i asked them to please leave . There concern now as changed again to caffcass asking my daughter to write a letter to the judge she said she doesn't know how to do that the sw said that's a massive concern that a child of her age can't even write a letter . I asked them how could they even say that that's cruel . I believe they want to push and push me so they have anything to go on. If the sw can't see how happy my children are then she's obviously trying to destroy our lives all for profit as long as there family's are better off then they really don't care . I see the way she just looks through my children with no thought what they are doing to my children the pain they are causing is the worst pain and trauma any parent will ever go through . I feel like my little girl is being stolen from me but it's legal . The court will go on for 3 days . My hearts breaking because it's not true i love care and protect my children as best i can anyone who knows me knows that. Who will the judge listen a really good lier with a job like hers. Or a traumatised single mum it's like i can't breathe it feels like a nightmare . I pray to god the judge does what's best for my little girl she's drew a picture for caffcass to hand to the judge with me and her asking to let her live at home with her mum . She told caffcass what to write bless her. She trys to be brave but i see the pain in her little face

[Suzie, FRG Adviser]

Dear Frazor

Thank you for your post and welcome back to the discussion board. I am sorry to hear of your experiences. I can see from the information you have provided it has been a very difficult and stressful time for you. We do HEAR you here, at Family Rights Group. We can see how important your children are to you and how much you want to continue to care for them at home.

I understand from your previous posts that your children have been living at home with you under care orders for several years. Children’s services are now seeking to remove your daughter, aged 9 but given your son’s age and wishes and feelings he will remain at home with you.

I hope your solicitor is advising you on how best to present your case to court. It is very clear that you believe you are best placed to care for the children in your home and that this would be best for them. Please do ensure that your solicitor considers with you how to respond to any concerns raised and how to puts forward your best argument.

At Family Rights Group our expertise is within English children’s services and English law, unfortunately you do not fall within this remit therefore whilst we can offer some general advice (as previously) it is important that you get accurate advice in the area you live in, the legal jurisdiction and child welfare services there.

Please look back at the email sent to you in January 2026 which included links to a range of services in your area (including legal advice). If it is not possible to access this email, you can scroll to the relevant section of our useful links page HERE . There are also links to emotional support and parenting and family services which you may find helpful.

I have added HERE a link to Matchmothers. They are a charity who offer emotional support to mother’s who are no longer caring for their children for many different reasons. Whilst it is not helpful to pre-empt the outcome of court proceedings, it may be comforting to know there is a support service available.

Best wishes, Suzie