Hi
Sorry this is a long post and complex.
So about 5 years ago my daughter accused my older son of SA it was taken to court and he was remanded.
We know100% this was all made up as she had written notes in her books that she had admitted she likes to lie and likes the attention i found these and gave them into the solicitor at the time. Also the times she had said it had happened could not have as he was not living or visiting the home at the time.
The first day of trial the judge was shown the note books and even before the jury were brought in he told the prosecutor to re interview my daughter on what they had seen. Anyway they did this and weren’t happy with her response which was total nonsense.
The outcome of that was the judge then found my son NOT GUILTY and he was released immediately from court. We were all relieved but obviously this caused a lot of upset and disruptions within our family.
SS were then involved because my son has a daughter they caused lots of problems at the time regarding him seeing her and did an assessment, the outcome was that their “advice” was he had to have supervised visits with her.
My son and his GF had split up due to my sons mental health at the time and he had threatened to hurt himself in the family home while my granddaughter was upstairs the police were called and he was arrested for DV.
His GF did apply for and successfully get a non molestation order against him for 12 months. This was before the allegations of SA against my daughter.
While my son was on remand his GF did support him throughout and when he was released she was fully on board and told the SS that she wanted him to see his daughter and have unsupervised visits. She had no concerns and trusted the allegations were false and his mental health had improved.
Obviously they didn’t like that and that is why they recommended supervised.
The reason they gave was that even though he was found NOT GUILTY in a court by a judge. That doesn’t mean the SA didn’t happen it just means there wasn’t enough evidence to prove it did. And he has DV on his record even though he didn’t harm his GF or Daughter. They were still in the house when he threatened to hurt himself.
Anyway fast forward to now.
SS were no longer involved and closed the case. My son was having unsupervised visits and his daughter has had sleepovers at his house everything was all good.
My son and his GF have since got back together about a year ago even though they still live separately.
She has since become pregnant with my grandson and is expecting in February 27.
Now SS have been in contact and want to do A section 47 on them both again probably for the same reasons as before. I don’t understand how they can be using this against him as he has never been in trouble with the police before or after these events and has always been a food father.
Is there anything we can do to stop them interfering or do we have to just let them do the assessment again with probably the same outcome. I am so annoyed at this moment. And feel so sad for them both. How can lies and one mistake while in a mental crisis lead to this.
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