Deceitful family member making false allegations , it has to stop here

[dora123]

Hello

The benefits agency called me yesterday saying somebody made an allegation that my boyfriend was living with me. They called as I am on income support. So this is a case of possible benefit fraud, which thankfully is going no further but now it has been highlighted that somebody is out to mess with my life.

I beleieve that this somebody is the relative of my ex, who has made problems for me before regarding the authorities.

This person in question knows for a FACT that my boyfriend does not live with me. This person also has a clear problem with my boyfriend being around as he now can not just turn up and throw his weight around like he used to. He also has issues about my boyfriend taking the place of his brother as a father figure.

This relative of my ex, has driven motive to intefere, obviously intending to try and make life difficult for me to be with my boyfriend.

So now, I ask advice on what to do. I have a social worker and a case which is on a child in need level. I am extremely concerned that this 'somebody' will continue to make false allagations against me in the future and intefere with my- what can now be seen as a relativley good- relationship with SSVCS.

PLEASE HELP !

Thanks, Dora

[Suzie, FRG Adviser]

Dear Dora,

I am sorry to hear that a false allegation was made to the benefits agency. I am glad that they have heard your side. Can you get a letter from them confirming the allegations and the outcome of the investigation? If the relative makes further allegations then you will have proof that this is not an isolated issue. You should keep a diary of allegations as well.

What does dad say about this interference? What about other relatives? Are they aware of this harassment? If he was to allege that you committed a crime, for example, the police would be concerned that he is wasting police time.

If it continues, I wonder whether you could consider an injunction or non molestation order or what power do the police have in these circumstances? To discuss this further, you could contact the helpline Rights of Women.

While there is a child in need plan in place, I also suggest that you let the social worker know what is happening. She may have suggestions on how to manage this. Or she may want to talk to dad or his family about this harassment. As it is upsetting to you it is likely to be upsetting to your child as well.

Best wishes,

Suzie

[dora123]

Ok thanks for the advice