adviceplease

[derekglen2003]

Hi I've been bringing my grandaughter up for 10 yrs now . I really need help or advice x as she's been growing up obviously has been think inking about her parents . She saw her mum again 2 years ago it's been hit and miss with her mum , the mum , my daughter , gets in touch wen has a new bf , anyway last time she saw her daughter she promised to write every wk and keep in touch but never did , the dad has been in prison for a yr he was consistent seeing gd until prison , since being out tho gd doesn't no how to deal with her feelings about either of them , dad more so as he seen in her life more up until prison. She is so rude to me and her grandad nt being respectful etc, it's breaking my heart I've been of ill health because of all this over the years and have just been diagnosed with depression which doesn't help . We are at our wits end of how to help her , her school work is suffering and the teachers say she needs councelling so is being reffered to camms .I've since remarried 2 yrs ago so need to get the residency order changed , I've been round in circles with this I've even been to the family courts where its now the central residence for copies but to no avail .

[Suzie, FRG Adviser]

Dear Glen2003

Thank you for your post.

I have private messaged you to suggest that as you are a grandparent carer, it may be more relevant for you to post your message on our family and friends' discussion board.

Best Wishes

Suzie