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by Silverado
Mon Sep 16, 2024 10:11 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: If Social Services are not concerned about the welfare of children would they recommend a refuge?
Replies: 4
Views: 2907

Re: If Social Services are not concerned about the welfare of children would they recommend a refuge?


You are spot on as she did try that and has tried every trick in the book as a trigger to try and get a rise out of me and to simply undermine the progress I have made to stay calm. If the courts weren’t a costly way to sort things out, I would have loved to see the courts view on her behaviour ...
by Silverado
Mon Sep 16, 2024 10:09 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: If Social Services are not concerned about the welfare of children would they recommend a refuge?
Replies: 4
Views: 2907

Re: If Social Services are not concerned about the welfare of children would they recommend a refuge?

You are spot on as she did try that and has tried every trick in the book as a trigger to try and get a rise out of me and to simply undermine the progress I have made to stay calm. If the courts weren’t a costly way to sort things out, I would have loved to see the courts view on her behaviour ...
by Silverado
Sun May 26, 2024 1:40 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Can my wife deny me access to our children if a child in need plan is being recommended
Replies: 9
Views: 7930

Re: Can my wife deny me access to our children if a child in need plan is being recommended

Thanks Suzie

You are right, there is no point saying anything to my wife as she is very economical with the truth and misconstrues things back to social services who in turn suggest she misunderstands things and not misconstrues but it’s clear to see she has their support and I’m the condemned man ...
by Silverado
Tue May 21, 2024 2:49 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Can my wife deny me access to our children if a child in need plan is being recommended
Replies: 9
Views: 7930

Re: Can my wife deny me access to our children if a child in need plan is being recommended

My wife is now suggesting that if she hadn’t left the relationship, Social services would have issued a Child Protection Plan. I take this point very seriously as in the assessment that was officially issued to us both, there is no hint or mention of Child Protection anywhere within the 30 page ...
by Silverado
Sun Apr 28, 2024 12:39 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Can my wife deny me access to our children if a child in need plan is being recommended
Replies: 9
Views: 7930

Re: Can my wife deny me access to our children if a child in need plan is being recommended

Thanks Suzie as this is very comprehensive. I will contact the social worker but in all honesty I am not sue if social services are feeding a different version of events to me and my wife and telling us what we want to hear as my wife is adamant social services have clearly identified distress in ...
by Silverado
Tue Apr 09, 2024 9:44 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Can my wife deny me access to our children if a child in need plan is being recommended
Replies: 9
Views: 7930

Re: Can my wife deny me access to our children if a child in need plan is being recommended

Thanks for your reply. Yes, I’m on both my children’s birth certificate.

I hear what you are saying about the rest which is welcome, but it also feels like a punishment as I have been left to think things over on my own in the house. This has resulted in poor sleep and no desire to eat as I’m too ...
by Silverado
Tue Apr 09, 2024 7:47 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Can my wife deny me access to our children if a child in need plan is being recommended
Replies: 9
Views: 7930

Can my wife deny me access to our children if a child in need plan is being recommended

Hi,

Social services have recently been involved due to shouting in the house which is contributed to by my lack of patience due to stress at work and the stress of parenting a child with Autism. Despite not shouting for 2 months and undertaking help from the NHS, my wife is pursuing separation ...
by Silverado
Tue Apr 09, 2024 3:16 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: If Social Services are not concerned about the welfare of children would they recommend a refuge?
Replies: 4
Views: 2907

If Social Services are not concerned about the welfare of children would they recommend a refuge?

Hi, my wife has decided to take my children to a foster home because she is afraid that my temper issues which have subsided with recent therapy, will resurface. She is voicing her views through the children stating they feel the same way and hence why social services are recommending a child in ...