Today I found out it’s escalated to PLO, and honestly I feel so confused and overwhelmed — especially while pregnant. My social worker keeps saying I’m doing amazing and there are so many positives, and that this is NOT about removal — it’s a formal step to make sure I keep maintaining all the changes I’ve made. But she hasn’t fully explained what exactly still needs improving — just said a letter with full details is on the way & to get a solicitor before plo meeting on 22nd July
Things they were concerned about in my past (2021–2024):• Mental health struggles & suicide attempts
• Housing conditions inconsistent / messy
• Oversharing publicly on social media
• Domestic abuse & unsafe relationships
• No routines or stable bonds
• Didn’t engage with support or ask for help
• Financial struggles
ALL of this has changed completely now — these are the positives they acknowledge:• Blocked baby’s dad straight away & followed all advice
• Fully engaged with perinatal, GP & therapy support
• Attend EVERY appointment & act quickly if anything feels wrong
• Home is kept clean & safe, routines are in place
• Social media fully private, no over‑sharing
• Strong family links & I ask for help openly now
• Finances stable, safe & single
• Fully prepared with absolutely everything baby needs
I’m just wondering — has anyone else been through exactly this? Where you’ve turned everything around, you’re doing so well, but it still moves to PLO because of past history? It’s scary and confusing, even though I’m told it’s not removal. Would love to hear your experiences or any advice to help me understand better — thank you so much
