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TY4J74
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Looking for advice

Unread post by TY4J74 » Mon Jul 06, 2026 5:09 pm

Hi,

Looking for some advice / help. We have no experience with any of this and from the get go it just seems very intimidating.

We recently had to have an assessment to which it went to a meeting and the outcome was a CPP.

Just looking for some clarification / was this all handled correctly? and is this the normal structure / response to these type of things.

Again, we have no experience or knowledge of any of this and are fairly in the dark around a response, can we challenge? If we challenge will it be held against us in a negative way?

Lets start,

We had a social worker come and do an assessment which lasted 45mins, a week later we received an update to say we have to go to a meeting and a report would be sent to us 48 hours before the meeting.
We didn't know what to do or expect and just followed along. We received the report...

The report was dreadful, not because we are bad people but it was worded so negatively against us. statements was incorrect, stuff we said was ignored, it seems only the 'bad' parts was presented on the report and nothing good.
Medical records was accessed that were 10-15 years old and this was used against us, its like they plucked a sentence from 2014 and added it to a sentence in 2026. There wasn't a history of constant issues, it was a one off thing
and that was it, but its been used against us.

There's hardly any context behind any of the statements they have used which doesn't show why x y z happened or occurred.

At the meeting, alot of my healthcare team were meant to attend and wanted to ! however did not receive the invites

Happy to go into a bit more detail if needed but just want to ask if this is a normal type of thing regarding these services?

Met a social person who didn't explain things to us, just asked us questions.
Sent a report which was totally untrue / fabricated / exaggerated / No option to challenge anything
Was told to fight our corner at the meeting - by the social assessment person
Meeting was, in my opinion biased
CPP given and a plan in place, waiting for a letter / email to clarify everything - reason unborn may be subject to emotional abuse - Please before judged, this just sounds terrible and isn't the case!

It just seems there was no communication, no honesty, no integrity, just an attack against us, all the good parts ignored and the old history, negative parts put in bold.

Any advice / help anyone can share please?

Thank you

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