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What will happen?!

Starry222
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What will happen?!

Unread post by Starry222 » Thu Jul 23, 2026 2:13 pm

My partner is subject to an SOR and SHPO from an online offense, I've been friends with him well before the offense and remained in contact, last year that turned into a romantic relationship. I have daughters aged 14 and 12. He's followed every rule, restriction, etc since his release in 2016 and considered very low risk, he just got a new OM who wanted to start the process of getting the SHPO restrictions off completely. Before that however, there was a few occasions he spent the night at my address, any contact with my children has been supervised. Someone (my ex) reported him and he had to be interviewed and has been given a caution, which was for staying overnight at a property where children under 18 reside. Despite his SHPO mentions nothing about this, the SOR only mentions that he needs to tell them if he's living in a property with anyone under 18 which of course he isn't. This whole thing has prompted a refferal to Children's Services understandably. It's been 2 weeks since they received the referral and I've heard nothing. I called them for an update and they've said they never had a referral, I've gone back to the OM who checked and 100% it was sent 14 days ago, he's also sent it AGAIN! Poor on their part but whatever. What should I expect from CS when they call? Will it be a absolutely no contact, will they force me into leaving my partner. I've never had any involvement with police, CS, nothing. Just wanting to hear other people's experiences to prepare myself

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