A stepfather can make a formal agreement with the parent or parents who have parental responsibility.
A special form must be used. It is called a parental responsibility agreement form. The form is available from the local Family Court office. Or it can be downloaded from the court service here.
After the form is filled in, it must be signed by a court officer and sent to the Central Family Court. The address is on the form.
If there is one parent who has parental responsibility for the child, the form only needs to be signed by them. If both the child’s parents have parental responsibility, they will both need to sign.
These points explain in more detail what is involved and include some tips:
- A separate form must be filled in for each child
- Use black ink to fill in the form
- Once the form is filled in the parent(s) with parental responsibility AND the step-father need to take the form to a local Family Court
- Make sure you have the child’s birth certificate and take this to the court too
- Each parent and the step father needs to take to the court proof of their identity. This needs to show their photo and their signature. This could be a passport or driving licence for example
- Ask for someone at the court to witness each parent sign the form. And to then sign the form themselves (the part called certificate of the witness)
- Any of the following people at the court can do this: a Justice of the Peace, a Justices’ Clerk, a court official who is authorised by the judge to administer oaths to witness your signatures.
When the certificate has been signed and witnessed then:
- Make copies of the agreement so you have one for your own records and so do the parent(s) with parental responsibility already
- Send the original form with the signed certificate of witness to the Central Family Court so that the agreement can be recorded by the court. address of the Central Family Court is on the form. The address is: The Central Family Court, First Avenue House, 42-49 High Holborn, London WC1V 6NP
- The Central Family Court will record the Agreement and keep the original. The copies will be stamped and returned to each parent at the addresses given on the Agreement. The Agreement will not take effect until it has been recorded at: Central Family Court.